Five Minute Friday: Grace

I'm trying something new here on Fridays. Or Saturdays if I'm running late.

I'm joining in with Lisa Jo Baker for a five minute writing session.  The basic idea is that a prompt is given weekly, then I spend only five minutes writing whatever comes to mind. You can get the full scoop here. And maybe think about joining in!




Today's prompt: Grace

When grace is joined with wrinkles, it is adorable. There is an unspeakable dawn in happy old age.

     -Victor Hugo 

I wouldn't say I'm old (but my kids would!)

But I'm definitely in that "middle-age" range.

And I find myself thinking about life a bit more.

Where have I been and where will I be going?

Who do I want to be?

How do I want to treat others in my life?

You see, I've not always been happy with the relationships around me.

Wanting more of this or less of that.

But I've learned that I can't change anyone.

Ever.

I can talk to them, but that usually ends in an epic fail.

But I can change me.

I can choose my own actions and words.

And I do.

I'm creating the life I want. Every. Single. Day.

But, the funny thing is, I get that what I want may not be the same thing that others around me want.

Meaning that I may be disappointing, upsetting those around me.

What to do about this?

Just try to pay attention to the world around me and live with as much grace as possible.

Yep. That's what I'll do.